How to Ask a Girl If She Has a Boyfriend?

A lot of guys are afraid to ask girls out because they naturally assume the girls have boyfriends already. This makes sense if the girl is kind, sweet, intelligent, and beautiful. Why wouldn’t she have a boyfriend? However, this girl may be giving you signals like a wink or a smile which indicates to you that she could be single. But, how will you know for sure? The only way you will ever know is if you flat out ask her, “Do you have a boyfriend?”

First, make sure she is not wearing a wedding ring on her finger. In most cases, this will eliminate the possibility that she could be married already. Next, take notice of whether she has any male companions around her or is talking to a possible boyfriend on her phone. If the answer is “no” to all these possible scenarios, then go up to her and start a conversation. This is the part when guys really freak out about and usually don’t know what to say. You could just ask her if she has a boyfriend and you may get a fast response, but then it might come across as desperate. Instead, you should start a casual conversation with her and then sort of inch into the topic of whether she has a boyfriend. You could say something like, “Oh, I hope your boyfriend doesn’t mind that we’re talking” or “Would your boyfriend mind if I get your phone number?” By saying this, you’re expecting her to say something like “I don’t have a boyfriend.” If she does say that, then you have the answer that you want.

If asking the girl directly is too hard for you, then try having a mutual friend ask for you or contact the girl through social media. Mutual friends, for example, may already know the answer to the question of “does she have a boyfriend?” If not, it won’t be hard for them to find out because they already have a friendship with this person. But if you don’t have a mutual friend, just look the girl up on social media and observe her profile pictures (if they are made public). If the pictures show a boyfriend, then you have your answer. If they don’t, then it could mean that she doesn’t but you still have to know for sure. At this point, send them a friend request and see if they reply to it. This will open a link of communication to where you can become friendly with them online and eventually learn more about their relationship status (especially if it’s listed in their profile). A lot of happy couples have met through social media so this could work out great for you.